February came with the flu, hitting myself, my wife, and our oldest in rapid succession. I feel like I lost an entire week due to drained energy, no appetite, and just trying to keep our household afloat. I definitely lost a couple pounds.

We’ve been preoccupied with a lot of external priorities. A theme and focal point that has crystallized for me over the last couple weeks is resilience. I can’t control much of what happens around our family, but I can control our response to it or at least guide it.

I’m looking into ways to build resilience, in our household, in our friends and family connections, and in our community.

As expected, these thoughts and anxieties and external pressures have taken some of my focus, and that will need to continue.

Last Month’s Goals

1. Finish three books.
2. Small acts – Exercise.
3. Small acts – Writing.

Finish three books?

I read two books in February, and one was a doozy. I finally, after several months, finished reading The World of Ice and Fire, by George R.R. Martin and others — Martin’s encyclopedic history of his fantasy universe, written as if by a Maester of the Citadel.

I’m not going to review this book; if you thoroughly enjoy A Game of Thrones and other attendant books in that universe, and you love world-building, then you’ll find this an interesting read. My one gripe is that there was no detailed map of Essos, despite there being about 75 pages on the civilizations of that continent.

I also read the comic collection of Star Wars: The High Republic, Phase II, Vol. 1: Balance of the Force. I happened to pick it up in a local bookshop one weekend, and I knew it would make an easy read for my monthly goal. It was solid. I haven’t read anything else in the Star Wars: The High Republic series, despite there being at least three “phases” of comics and several novels. I think I’ll continue with Phase II, at least.

Small acts – exercise?

February was a slow month for exercise, what with the aforementioned illness. I recorded exercising about three times, although I definitely stretch more consistently than that.

I’m already off to a much better start for March.

Small acts – writing?

I didn’t do any note-taking or writing/revising of my current novellas-in-progress.

I did quite a lot of reading of emails and articles following everything that’s happening in the US — leading me to focus more on resilience.

I posted three times on this site, after getting it back up and running, but again, illness. I’m once again off to a solid start for March.

Goals for March

1. Finish three books.
   • Current reads: Aspects by John M. Ford; and We Were Eight Years in Power: An American Tragedy by Ta-Nehisi Coates
   • Likely next reads: A friend at work just finished reading The Hobbit for the first time, and we’ve been talking about it, so it feels like time to pick it up again.
2. Small acts – Exercise. Bare minimum: stretch and meditate every day, and if I do any of the following in addition, that’s ideal.
   • Bronze medal: short yoga session
   • Silver medal: longer yoga session and/or resistance training at home
   • Gold medal: 1-hour gym session
3. Small acts – Writing. Bare minimum: get back to posting here every Wednesday and Sunday, and not just haiku. Achieving some combination of the following throughout a given week is ideal.
   • Bronze medal: basic admin for this site, my email, my imprint, etc.
   • Silver medal: take notes, or organize older notes
   • Gold medal: Revise/rewrite my duology in, at least a 15-minute focus session
4. Continue daily meditation/affirmation. I’ve started doing this very recently. I have attempted a meditation routine in the past, but it has been quite a while since I’ve tried to stick to a daily routine. I think t really does help put things in perspective and center my mood.

Steve D